DIVORCE MEDIATION
Fast, Fair & Drama Free
Aether Mediation
Collaboration Instead of Litigation
MS, MBA, CCF, JDR, GDC
AJ Maddeny is a seasoned mediator with a deep commitment to helping individuals and families navigate divorce and conflict with clarity and strength. He brings a rare blend of decision science, emotional intelligence, and strategic insight to every case guiding clients through complex transitions with steady leadership and a results-oriented mindset.
With years of experience and a proven track record, AJ provides more than just mediation he offers structure, momentum, and a sense of grounded confidence when people need it most. His approach is collaborative, adaptive, and always rooted in respect, ensuring every party feels heard and supported from start to finish.
Clients trust AJ not only for his calm presence, but for his ability to move things forward toward fair, lasting outcomes that hold up over time.
Adam J. Maddeny
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Google clients reviews
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Former Clients
Adam was very patient throughout the process. Kept both parties focused on the importance of accomplishing a settlement agreement that was fair.
J.B.
I felt that all parties concerned trusted that Adam at Aether was truly invested in a positive outcome for our entire family. I'm grateful we were referred to Aether for guidance during this impactful event.
M.A.
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Adam is a truly genuine, knowledgeable and patient person. He provided calm to a stressful situation, kept us on track and delivered! It was a pleasure to know Adam despite the circumstances
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Divorce brings decisions about parenting, finances, housing, and what comes next. Aether Mediation offers structured online conversations for Virginia couples who want to work toward an agreement. We help identify issues, organize information, and explore options. Each spouse makes their own decisions and may seek independent legal or financial advice. If you are considering divorce on your own, our separate individual Divorce Coaching service helps clarify priorities and prepare for next steps.
• Clarify decisions
List what needs attention now, what information is missing, and what can wait.
• Prepare for parenting discussions
Organize schedules, communication needs, and open questions without promising any outcome.
• Compare options
Explore possible agreements in a neutral conversation; each person decides what to accept.
• Keep coaching separate
One spouse can prepare individually; joint mediation requires willing participation from both.
• Meet online across Virginia
Consultations and services are conducted remotely.
If you and your spouse are ready to discuss decisions together, Divorce Mediation offers a neutral, structured way to work through parenting, finances, property, and next steps online. If you are deciding on your own whether or how to divorce, Divorce Coaching is a separate one-on-one service to clarify priorities and prepare for decisions. Serving clients across Virginia. Start with a complimentary consultation to see which path fits.
