Mediation: Step-by-Step

1. Complimentary Consultation

Schedule a free Zoom consultation to assess whether mediation is right for your case. During this meeting, AJ will walk you through the process, answer any questions, and help clarify expectations and timelines. If you're attending individually, you’ll also get the option to invite your spouse for a joint session to explore divorce mediation together. A joint consultation often creates early alignment and helps set the tone for a productive process.

2. Intake

Each spouse completes a confidential intake form covering marital assets, debts, parenting considerations (if applicable), and key concerns. Once both parties confirm the first mediation session is scheduled.

3. Mediation Sessions

In joint sessions, you'll work through each topic step-by-step — with AJ guiding the conversation, exploring options, and helping both sides move toward resolution. The pace and number of sessions depend on your unique situation.

4. Between Sessions

You may be given focused follow-ups — such as disclosures, document reviews, or clarity checks — to keep momentum going between meetings. These “homework” items help reduce session time and ensure productive discussions.

5. Final Mediation Sessions

Once major issues are addressed, AJ will firm up your understanding to finalize the terms for a clear, fair, and enforceable Separation Agreement.

6. Separation Agreement Draft

Within 5 business days of your final session, AJ will send a draft agreement for review by both spouses and their attorneys (if nvolved). You’ll have time to review for clarity before moving to final signatures.

7. Finalized Agreement

Once both parties approve, the final Separation Agreement is issued for signatures. This document becomes the legal foundation for filing your uncontested divorce or custody agreement.

Ground Rules & Your Rights During Mediation

• You have the right to speak without interruption — and not be interrupted.

• You have the right to be respected and not personally attacked.

• You may request a break at any time.

• You can pause or end the process at your discretion.

• You may request a private conversation (called a “caucus”) with the mediator.

• You have full confidentiality and privacy.

• You may consult with an attorney at any stage.