Questions Before Divorce
- Have I exhausted all options for reconciliation?
- Have we tried marriage counseling or therapy?
- Have we openly communicated our concerns and feelings to each other?
- What are the main reasons I want a divorce?
- Are the issues primarily emotional, financial, or related to trust and infidelity?
- Are these issues resolvable, or have they been persistent despite efforts to address them?
- How will divorce impact my children?
- How will we manage child custody and visitation?
- How can we ensure that our children’s emotional and psychological needs are met during and after the divorce?
- What are the financial implications of divorce?
- How will our assets and debts be divided?
- What are the potential costs of legal fees and other related expenses?
- How will alimony and child support be determined?
- What are my long-term goals and how does divorce fit into them?
- Am I prepared for the lifestyle changes that come with being single?
- How will my social and support network change?
- How will this decision affect my emotional well-being?
- Am I prepared for the emotional challenges of divorce?
- Do I have a support system in place (friends, family, or a therapist) to help me through the process?
- What is the best way to proceed with the divorce process?
- Should we pursue mediation, collaborative divorce, or litigation?
- How can we ensure the process is as amicable as possible?
- Have I consulted with a legal professional?
- Do I understand my rights and obligations under the law?
- Have I considered the legal implications of my decision?
- What are the living arrangements post-divorce?
- Where will I live, and can I afford it?
- How will we handle the sale or division of the family home?
- How will my decision affect my future relationships?
- Am I ready to move on, or do I need more time to heal from this relationship?
- How will I approach future relationships differently?