Divorce has become a natural part of marriage. Most marriages end up with a divorce. The majority of which don’t need to be painful. In fact, if done collaboratively, the Separation Agreement will set up both for a strong independent future. This is the time and place to discuss all that must be decided on to ensure a smooth transition from “us” to “I”. Divorce is just a legal world for “transforming” the relationship to its new phase – a phase of expanded freedoms and restored agency.